Coming Back to Yourself
Coming Back to Yourself
Learning to hear your own voice again after years of putting everyone else first.
Coming Back to Yourself is an eight-week course about recognizing the small ways you may have learned to override yourself, reconnecting with your own preferences and internal voice, and beginning to make choices that include yourself. This is not a boundaries course, a confidence course, or a course about becoming selfish. It's about learning to hear yourself clearly enough to know what you think, want, prefer, and choose.
This course is based on Brooke Andersen's personal experiences, writing, and advocacy. Brooke is not a licensed mental health professional, and this course is intended for educational and personal reflection purposes only. It is not therapy, medical advice, or a substitute for professional care. Read the full disclaimer.
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The Journey
Eight weeks. One honest arc.
Each week moves you one step further — from seeing where you are, to deciding who you want to become next.
Start Here
When Did I Stop Asking What I Want?
Recognizing how automatically you adjust around other people.
I Don't Even Know What I Like Anymore
Relearning preference through ordinary life.
Why Do I Need a Reason?
Exploring the tendency to justify wants before allowing them to count.
The Version of Me Everyone Expects
Exploring roles and what happens when you change.
When Saying No Feels Mean
Guilt, disappointment, and the difference between unkindness and honesty.
Can I Trust Myself?
Second-guessing, permission-seeking, and learning to trust internal judgment.
Making Choices That Include Me
Inclusion, not supremacy — real decisions where you matter too.
I Am Allowed to Be a Person in My Own Life
Integration — loving other people deeply without disappearing from your own life.
Your Guide
Brooke Andersen
Brooke built Through Fire & Grace from the lessons she gathered while navigating postpartum psychosis, chronic illness, trauma, faith, and the long work of healing. She guides each week the way she wrote the book — honestly, without performance, and with deep respect for the person doing the work.